Forms of Address
American names are written and spoken with the given name first and
the family name last. So John Smith's family name is Smith, not John.
In a formal setting, address men as "Mister" (abbreviated as "Mr."),
married women as "Misses" (abbreviated as "Mrs."), and unmarried women
as "Miss" (abbreviated as "Ms."). These days many women prefer to be
addressed using the abbreviations "Ms." or "M.", pronounced "miz". If
the person has an M.D. or Ph.D., they will often be addressed as
"Doctor" (abbreviated as "Dr."). Faculty are addressed as "Professor"
(abbreviated as "Prof.").
In an informal situation, Americans will introduce each other by first
name, without titles, and occasionally by just the last name. If you
are introduced to somebody by first name, you can address him or her
by first name the next time you meet. The only exception would be for
someone who holds an important position, such as the university
president or provost. Unless they tell you otherwise, faculty should
be addressed using their title and last name (e.g., "Professor
Smith").
When in doubt, use the formal manner of address, since it is better to
err on the side of formality. It is also appropriate to ask how they
prefer to be addressed.
Children should always address adults in the formal fashion, using
their title and last name.